Dr. Tan Tek Seng

DAILY REFLECTION

18 Feb 2026

“How good and pleasant it is when God’s people live together in unity!”
Psalms‬ ‭133‬:‭1‬ ‭

In today’s fast-paced and demanding work culture, many adult children are caught up with responsibilities and deadlines. Busyness easily becomes the norm, and visiting elderly parents can unintentionally be postponed again and again. Yet seasons like Chinese New Year invite us to slow down, return home, and reconnect heart-to-heart.

For elderly parents, a child’s homecoming is never something small. It is a deep reassurance that they are remembered, valued, and loved. Their joy does not come from gifts, but from presence. Yesterday, my wife and I made a special effort to visit my 90-year-old sister in Singapore. Seeing her five daughters (my nieces) and their families gathered around her on the first day of Chinese New Year was deeply moving. Their presence brought her comfort, dignity, and quiet fulfillment. It was a beautiful picture of honor across generations — children and grandchildren choosing to show up. This is the true spirit of Chinese New Year.

Reunion is not merely about angpows or festive meals. It is about gratitude. It is about remembering the sacrifices of the older generation and strengthening the bonds that carry a family forward. When younger generations make time to return home, they are investing in legacy.

Psalm 133:1 reminds us that unity in the family is both beautiful and sacred. It does not happen by accident. It requires intention, humility, and love. It also reminds our younger generations that presence at home is priceless.

"In family life, be completely present."