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DAILY REFLECTION
16 October 2026

“Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.” 
James 1:19

My wife and I recently celebrated our 50th wedding anniversary aboard a cruise through the magnificent Norwegian Fjords. Surrounded by breathtaking mountains and waterfalls, we reflected on five decades of marriage—its joys, challenges, lessons and God’s unfailing faithfulness.

During our conversations, we recalled how God used an Indian driver to transform my character after I accepted Christ. In those early years, I struggled with a quick temper. Yet God used this unexpected relationship to teach me humility, patience and self-control.

Looking back, I realise that God often uses ordinary people and everyday circumstances to shape us into Christlikeness.

After fifty years, I have learned that a lasting marriage is not built on two perfect people, but on two imperfect people continually learning to love, forgive and grow together.

James 1:19 offers three timeless principles for a Christ-centred marriage.

1. Be Quick to Listen:
Many marital disagreements arise not from a lack of love, but from a failure to understand each other.

Listening means giving our spouse our full attention, seeking to understand their feelings rather than defending ourselves.

Sometimes, the greatest expression of love is simply listening without interruption or judgment.

2. Be Slow to Speak:
Words can heal or wound, encourage or discourage, strengthen or destroy relationships.

During disagreements, harsh words spoken in anger can leave lasting scars.

Before responding, ask yourself: Will my words bring healing or further hurt?

A gentle response often accomplishes more than a hundred harsh words.

3. Be Slow to Become Angry:
Anger can destroy in minutes what love has taken years to build.

I know this personally. Before knowing Christ, my temper often controlled my reactions. Through God’s grace, I have gradually learned to respond with greater patience and humility.

Being slow to anger does not mean avoiding difficult conversations. It means addressing disagreements with love and self-control.

Sometimes, three simple words can restore a wounded relationship: “Please forgive me.”

Lessons After Fifty Years:
Our golden anniversary reminded me that marriage is not merely about growing old together, but growing in Christ together.

To younger couples, treasure your spouse. Listen attentively, speak kindly and forgive readily. Never allow pride to become more important than your marriage.

To older couples, remember that it is never too late to renew your love and strengthen your relationship.

A strong marriage is not one without disagreements, but one where love overcomes pride, forgiveness replaces resentment, and Christ remains at the centre.

Prayer:
Heavenly Father, thank You for the gift of marriage. Forgive our impatience, pride and hurtful words. Teach us to listen with understanding, speak with kindness and love with humility. Continue transforming our hearts so our marriages reflect Christ’s enduring love and faithfulness. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

每日反思
2026年10月16日

“各人要快快地听，慢慢地说，慢慢地动怒。”  
雅各书 1:19

最近，我和妻子乘坐邮轮畅游壮丽的挪威峡湾，庆祝我们结婚五十周年的金婚纪念日。

置身于雄伟的群山、飞流直下的瀑布，以及令人赞叹的自然美景之中，我们一同回顾过去五十年的婚姻生活——其中有喜乐、有挑战、有宝贵的功课，更有神始终不变的信实与恩典。

在交谈中，我们回想起我信主之后，神如何使用一位印度籍司机来改变我的性格。信主初期，我的脾气相当暴躁，容易动怒。然而，神却透过这段意想不到的关系，逐渐教导我学习谦卑、忍耐与节制。

如今再回头看，我深深体会到，神不一定透过伟大的人物或轰轰烈烈的经历来改变我们。很多时候，祂使用平凡的人和日常生活中的经历，塑造我们的生命，使我们越来越有基督的样式。

经过五十年的婚姻生活，我领悟到一个重要的真理：

美满持久的婚姻，并不是由两个完美的人建立起来的，而是由两个不完美的人，在爱中不断学习、彼此饶恕、共同成长。

雅各书1:19为以基督为中心的婚姻，提供了三个历久弥新的属灵原则。

一、快快地听:
夫妻之间许多的争执，并不是因为彼此缺乏爱，而是因为缺乏理解。

真正的聆听，不只是听见对方说什么，更是用心关注配偶的感受，努力理解对方的心声，而不是急着解释或为自己辩护。

有时候，表达爱最好的方式，就是安静地聆听，不打断，也不急于批评。

二、慢慢地说:
言语具有极大的力量。它可以医治，也可以伤害；可以鼓励，也可以使人灰心；可以建立关系，也可以破坏感情。

夫妻发生分歧时，在怒气中说出的伤人话语，往往会在对方心中留下难以磨灭的伤痕。

因此，在回应之前，不妨先问自己：

“我接下来要说的话，是带来医治，还是造成更深的伤害？”

一句温柔的话，往往胜过千百句严厉的责备。

三、慢慢地动怒:
怒气可能在短短几分钟内，摧毁爱情经过多年所建立的信任与亲密关系。

对此，我有深刻的亲身经历。

在认识基督以前，我常常被自己的脾气所控制。但感谢神，祂的恩典不断改变我，使我逐渐学会以更多的忍耐和谦卑来回应别人。

慢慢地动怒，并不意味着逃避问题，或压抑内心真实的感受，而是学习以爱心、耐心和节制来处理分歧。

有时候，一句简单而真诚的”请原谅我”，就能够成为修复受伤关系的开始。

五十年婚姻的领悟:
这次金婚纪念日再次提醒我：

婚姻不仅是两个人一起慢慢变老，更是两个人在基督里一起成长。

对于年轻的夫妻，我想鼓励你们：珍惜身边的配偶，用心聆听，温柔说话，乐意饶恕。千万不要让自己的骄傲，变得比婚姻关系更加重要。

对于结婚多年的夫妻，我也想提醒你们：无论携手走过多少岁月，重新点燃爱火、修复关系、加深彼此的感情，永远不会太迟。

真正坚固的婚姻，并不是没有争执，而是爱能够胜过骄傲，饶恕能够取代怨恨，并且始终让基督居于婚姻的中心。

祷告:
亲爱的天父，感谢祢赐下婚姻这份宝贵的礼物。求祢赦免我们曾经的急躁、骄傲，以及那些伤害配偶的言语。教导我们用理解的心聆听，以温柔的话语沟通，并以谦卑的态度彼此相爱。求祢继续更新和塑造我们的生命，使我们的婚姻能够彰显基督那永不止息的爱与信实，成为下一代美好的见证。奉主耶稣基督的名祷告，阿们！

DAILY REFLECTION
18 Sept 2026

“Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.”
‭‭Galatians‬ ‭6‬:‭2‬ ‭

Yesterday, I visited Pastor Joseph Lim, Senior Pastor of Emerge Church, who recently underwent surgery to remove a brain tumour.

As I sat with him and prayed for his recovery, the words of Galatians 6:2 came strongly to mind:

“Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.”

There are seasons in life when the burden becomes too heavy to carry alone. Illness, grief, uncertainty and physical weakness remind us how deeply we need God—and how much we need one another.

During my visit, I witnessed a beautiful expression of this biblical truth. Pastor Joseph is presently being cared for by the wife of one of his church elders. Her willingness to stand beside him during this vulnerable season is a quiet yet powerful demonstration of Christlike love.

Caregiving is more than meeting practical needs; it can become a sacred ministry. Every gentle touch, listening ear, prepared meal, whispered prayer and unseen act of service can reflect the heart of Jesus. We may not be able to remove another person’s suffering, but through our presence, prayers and practical care, we can help make the burden lighter.

Yet caregivers themselves also need care. Walking alongside someone through illness can bring physical exhaustion, emotional weariness and spiritual strain. Galatians 6:2 reminds us that burden-bearing is not meant to rest on one person alone. It is the calling of the whole community of faith. There are times when we give strength to others, and there are times when we must humbly allow others to strengthen us.

As I prayed for Pastor Joseph, I was reminded of a beautiful truth: the Church reflects the heart of Christ most clearly when no one is left to suffer alone.

May the Lord surround Pastor Joseph with His healing grace, strengthen and refresh those caring for him, and make each of us more attentive to those carrying heavy burdens.‬‬

DAILY REFLECTION
17 Sept 2026

“If anyone, then, knows the good they ought to do and doesn’t do it, it is sin for them.”
James 4:17

Several years ago, I hosted a Christian brother in my home for a week. Wanting to make his stay comfortable, I also allowed him to use my spare car. I was glad to help and trusted that what was freely entrusted to him would be treated with care and appreciation.

On the final day, he told me he was running late for his flight. Without hesitation, I offered to drive him to the airport.

After dropping him off, I returned home and discovered something disappointing. After a week of use, the car was dirty, the petrol tank was almost empty, and a punctured tyre had simply been thrown into the boot—without being repaired or even mentioned to me.

What troubled me most was that something entrusted through friendship and generosity had been taken for granted.

That experience taught me an important lesson: when we take something for granted, we often stop appreciating it; and when appreciation disappears, responsibility can easily disappear with it.

When someone entrusts something to us, we have a responsibility to care for it. Gratitude should lead to good stewardship, not entitlement. Another person’s generosity should never become an excuse for our carelessness.

The same principle applies to our relationship with God.

Everything we have is ultimately entrusted to us—our time, abilities, finances, relationships, opportunities, influence and ministry. Yet when God’s blessings become familiar, we can begin to treat them as something we deserve rather than gifts of grace.

What we take for granted, we often fail to treasure. And what we fail to treasure, we may eventually fail to steward faithfully.

So let us examine ourselves. Have we taken someone’s kindness for granted? Have we neglected something entrusted to our care? More importantly, have we taken God’s blessings for granted?

When God reveals such neglect, let us not make excuses. Let us acknowledge it, make things right where possible, and ask Him to give us a grateful and responsible heart.

Faithfulness is often demonstrated in the little things—caring for what we borrow, keeping our promises, respecting another person’s generosity, and leaving what has been entrusted to us in good order.

DAILY REFLECTION
16 Sept 2026

“Commit your way to the Lord; trust in him, and he will act. He will bring forth your righteousness as the light, and your justice as the noonday.”
Psalm 37:5-6

In every nation, questions of fairness, opportunity and equality can become deeply sensitive. Policies may be introduced to address historical inequalities or assist particular communities, yet they can also create perceptions of unfairness among others. When people feel excluded or disadvantaged because of their background, resentment can grow and national unity can suffer.

Psalm 37 offers us a better way: “Commit your way to the Lord; trust in him, and he will act.”

God cares about justice. His righteousness is not shaped by race, status, wealth or influence. His justice is compared to the noonday sun—clear, visible and impossible to hide.

For those entrusted with leadership, this is a reminder that authority is a stewardship. Good leadership should seek the welfare of the whole nation, especially those who need help, while promoting fairness, integrity and social harmony.

When we encounter situations we consider unfair, our response should not be bitterness, hatred or revenge. We can speak truth, pursue justice through peaceful and lawful means, pray for those in authority, and treat people of every community with dignity.

We must also guard our own hearts. It is easy to condemn prejudice in society while allowing resentment or prejudice to grow within ourselves. God’s justice must begin in our hearts before we demand it from others.

Today, as Malaysians celebrate 63 years of Malaysia, may we pray for a nation where our diversity does not divide us, but strengthens us; where leaders govern with wisdom and integrity; and where every Malaysian learns to respect and care for one another.

Let us commit Malaysia to the Lord and trust Him for a future marked by justice, righteousness, peace and unity.

May justice shine like the noonday sun, and may it begin with each of us.

DAILY REFLECTION
15 Sept 2026

“The integrity of the upright guides them, but the unfaithful are destroyed by their duplicity.”
‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭11‬:‭3‬ ‭

The 1MDB scandal involving former Malaysian Prime Minister Najib Razak offers a sobering modern illustration of this biblical principle.

1MDB was established with ambitious goals for national development, but it eventually became associated with one of the largest financial scandals in Malaysia’s history. Billions of dollars were misappropriated, and Najib was later convicted in Malaysia in the SRC International case involving funds connected to the wider 1MDB affair.

Beyond the enormous financial losses, however, something even more precious was damaged—TRUST.

Trust takes years to build, but it can be lost through a few wrong decisions. Once broken, it is difficult to restore.

Leadership is a stewardship. Whether we lead a nation, a company, a church, a ministry or a family, whatever authority and influence we possess have been entrusted to us. When integrity is compromised, the consequences seldom remain private. Decisions made behind closed doors can eventually affect families, organisations, communities and even an entire nation.

That is why Proverbs 11:3 says: “The integrity of the upright guides them.”

Integrity is like an inner compass. It guides us when choices are difficult, when temptation is strong and especially when no one seems to be watching. A person of integrity seeks to be the same person in private as in public.

Duplicity does the opposite. It divides the heart. We present one image to others while concealing another life within.

The danger is that compromise rarely begins with one enormous decision. It often starts with one small exception, one hidden choice or one convenient justification. When compromise is repeated, what once troubled our conscience can gradually begin to feel normal. Small compromises, left unchecked, can eventually lead to serious consequences.

This lesson is not only for politicians or national leaders. It is for every one of us.

We may never control billions of ringgit or hold public office, but God has entrusted something to each of us—our finances, relationships, responsibilities, influence, business, ministry or leadership.

The question is not how much we have been given, but how faithfully we handle what God has placed in our hands.

So let us examine ourselves honestly: Are there areas where we have begun to justify what we once knew was wrong? Are we the same person when no one is watching? Can those who trust us continue to do so with confidence?

Integrity sometimes requires difficult choices. It may mean saying no to an opportunity, admitting a mistake, keeping a promise when it is inconvenient, or doing what is right even when it costs us.

“Integrity may cost us something today, but losing it can cost us far more tomorrow.”‬‬

DAILY REFLECTION
14 Sept 2026

"Know therefore that the Lord your God is God; he is the faithful God, keeping his covenant of love to a thousand generations of those who love him and keep his commandments."
Deuteronomy 7:9

Lin’s life changed in an instant when her husband died unexpectedly in a tragic accident. Suddenly, she was left to raise two teenage children alone. Grief overwhelmed her, fear clouded the future, and financial pressures added to the weight she was already carrying.

In her darkest moments, Lin wondered whether life was still worth living. Yet one thing kept holding her back—the love she had for her children. Even when hope seemed almost gone, that love became a fragile thread keeping her connected to life.

One morning, crushed by sorrow, Lin walked toward a high-rise building intending to end her life. But along the way, something unexpected happened.

As she passed a narrow alley, she heard a worship song coming from a nearby church. Something about the song touched her wounded heart. Instead of continuing toward the building, she entered the church and quietly sat in the back row.

That morning, Pastor Oh was preaching about the faithfulness of God—the God who does not change, who keeps His promises, and who remains with His children even through life’s darkest valleys.

The message spoke directly into Lin’s despair. When the invitation for prayer was given, she came forward trembling and weeping. She poured out her pain before God and asked Him for strength, peace and a reason to keep going.

But God’s care did not end at the altar. Women from the church surrounded Lin with prayer, encouragement and practical help. They became the hands and feet of God’s faithfulness. Slowly, Lin began rebuilding her life. In time, she opened a small laundry shop—a simple business that became a beautiful symbol of restored hope and dignity.

Lin’s story reminds us of Deuteronomy 7:9: “The LORD your God is God; He is the faithful God.”

God’s faithfulness does not mean we will never experience tragedy. It means that tragedy does not have the final word.

Sometimes God meets us through Scripture. Sometimes through a worship song. Sometimes through a pastor’s message. And often, He carries us through people who refuse to let us walk through our pain alone.

Perhaps you are facing your own season of uncertainty today. Do not measure God’s faithfulness by the difficulty of your circumstances.

“When you cannot see a way forward, hold on to the God who remains faithful—He can turn your darkest valley into a pathway of hope.”

DAILY REFLECTION
11 Sept 2026

“What good is it for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul?” 
Mark 8:36

In recent years, Malaysians have watched with sadness as several former national leaders have faced serious corruption charges and allegations involving the misuse of public funds. Men who once occupied the highest offices of the nation have found their reputations and legacies overshadowed by questions of integrity and accountability.

Whatever the final judgment in each individual case, these events confront us with a timeless question asked by Jesus:

“What good is it for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul?”

Jesus was not teaching that wealth, influence or leadership are wrong. The danger comes when what we possess begins to possess us—when the desire for more wealth, greater power or higher status becomes stronger than our commitment to truth and righteousness.

A person may gain position, possessions, recognition and influence and still lose something infinitely more valuable: the integrity of the soul.

This warning is not only for politicians. It is for all of us.

Every person with influence faces choices. A businessman may be tempted to compromise for profit. A leader may protect his position at the expense of truth. A Christian worker may pursue recognition rather than faithfulness. Even in ordinary life, we can slowly exchange our convictions for convenience, acceptance or personal advantage.

The greatest danger is that compromise rarely begins with one enormous decision. It often begins with small choices that gradually silence the conscience.

That is why character matters.

Leadership is not merely about how much authority we possess, but what we do with the authority entrusted to us. Public office, business success, ministry leadership and personal influence are all forms of stewardship. Ultimately, we are accountable not only to people, but to God.

One day, titles will disappear. Positions will be handed to someone else. Wealth will be left behind. Public applause will become silent.

But our character and our accountability before God remain.

So let us ask ourselves: What am I pursuing? What am I willing to compromise to obtain it? And what kind of legacy am I building?

True success is not gaining everything the world can offer. True success is remaining faithful to God while faithfully stewarding whatever He places in our hands.

“Gain the world if God entrusts it to you—but never at the cost of your soul.”

DAILY REFLECTION
10 Sept 2026

“When evening came, many who were demon-possessed were brought to him, and he drove out the spirits with a word and healed all the sick.”
‭‭Matthew‬ ‭8‬:‭16‬ ‭

Yesterday, Pastor Leong shared with me the remarkable testimony of a well-known Taiwanese singer shortly before her passing.

For more than 40 years, Pastor Leong has ministered to people facing spiritual brokenness and bondage. In recent years, his ministry has also extended online, where he connects with people seeking spiritual help and ministers to them through prayer, counselling and deliverance, even when they are separated by distance.

One such person was this Taiwanese singer.

Despite her fame, talent and success, she had endured deep spiritual and emotional struggles for many years. According to Pastor Leong, she believed that a dark spiritual oppression associated with her family history had troubled her since childhood, robbing her of health, peace and joy.

Through Facebook, she eventually connected with Pastor Leong. Although they were not physically together, he ministered to her online and encouraged her to seek God earnestly through fasting, prayer and meditation on Psalm 23.

During this period, she reported a powerful spiritual encounter. She saw visions of Jesus and a white dove, experienced intense physical trembling and began speaking in tongues. She believed that through Christ, the spiritual bondage she had endured for decades was finally broken.

Afterwards, her appetite returned, her appearance improved and, most significantly, peace and joy returned to her heart.

Her testimony brings Matthew 8:16 vividly to mind. People brought those who were suffering to Jesus, and with a word, He drove out evil spirits and healed the sick.

This teaches us an important truth about deliverance: the power is not in the minister, the method, the prayer, or whether ministry takes place physically or online. The authority belongs to Jesus Christ.

Pastors and believers may pray, counsel and minister, but Jesus is the Deliverer.

The gospel declares that Christ came to rescue us from sin and darkness and reconcile us to God. Through the cross and resurrection, He has conquered sin and death and given us the hope of eternal life.

Whatever battle you may be facing—physical, emotional or spiritual—bring it to Jesus, while also seeking appropriate pastoral and medical help.

Come to Jesus. Receive His grace. Trust His authority. Walk in His light.

“In Christ there is freedom, hope and eternal life.”‬‬

DAILY REFLECTION
9 Sept 2026

“From the days of John the Baptist until now, the kingdom of heaven has been subjected to violence, and violent people have been raiding it.”
‭‭Matthew‬ ‭11‬:‭12‬ ‭

On September 3, renowned author and Messianic Rabbi Jonathan Cahn found himself in an unexpected and frightening situation aboard American Airlines Flight 618.

According to Cahn, a conversation with the passenger beside him eventually turned to spiritual matters and the gospel. What began peacefully suddenly changed when the man became hostile, and the encounter escalated into physical aggression. Other passengers and crew members eventually intervened.

This incident reminds us of a sobering truth: the gospel of Jesus Christ will not always be welcomed.

Jesus Himself experienced both acceptance and rejection. Crowds came eagerly to hear Him, yet others opposed Him and eventually sought His death. The apostles faithfully proclaimed Christ, but many encountered ridicule, persecution, imprisonment and even martyrdom.

Matthew 11:12 reminds us that the advance of God’s Kingdom has never been without opposition. The gospel offers wonderful grace, forgiveness and hope, but it also confronts the human heart. It calls us to repentance, challenges our pride and invites us to surrender our lives to Christ.

Grace welcomes us, but truth also confronts us.

Yet when the gospel is resisted, Jesus does not call us to respond with anger or retaliation. He teaches us the way of grace.

When insulted, we need not insult in return. When rejected, we continue to love. When opposed, we remain faithful to truth. When hostility arises, we seek to reflect the character of Christ.

This does not mean Christians should remain in dangerous situations or refuse appropriate help. Christian courage is not recklessness; it is faithfulness without retaliation.

Most of us may never experience physical violence for sharing Christ. Yet we may encounter rejection, misunderstanding, criticism or strained relationships because of our faith.

We cannot control how others respond to the gospel, but we can choose how we respond to them.

May God give us courage without aggression, conviction without condemnation, and truth expressed through love. May opposition never silence our witness or harden our hearts toward those who reject us.

“The gospel may be resisted, but it cannot be defeated. Our calling is not to win every argument, but to remain faithful to Christ and reflect His love.”‬‬

DAILY REFLECTION
8 Sept 2026

“The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.”
‭‭John‬ ‭1‬:‭5‬ ‭

Yesterday, TOS Board member Bishop Solomon and I had a meaningful conversation with Pastor Arthur Leong about the unique ministry he has faithfully carried for more than 40 years.

Four decades ago, Pastor Arthur sensed God calling him to take the gospel into the red-light districts—places many would rather avoid, where brokenness, exploitation, rejection and hopelessness are often hidden behind closed doors.

He went with a simple conviction: if Jesus is the Light of the world, then His light belongs precisely where the darkness seems greatest.

What began as a courageous step of obedience became a lifetime of ministry. Pastor Arthur has since authored 24 books, sharing lessons and insights gained through decades of evangelism. His journey reminds us that one act of obedience to God can bear fruit far beyond what we initially imagine.

John 1:5 does not deny the reality of darkness. Sin destroys. Shame imprisons. Rejection wounds. Yet Scripture gives us this wonderful assurance: darkness never has the final word when Christ enters the picture.

What particularly struck me about Pastor Arthur’s ministry was his approach. He did not begin with condemnation. He began by listening.

He sat with people, heard their stories and sought to understand the pain behind their circumstances. Many had already experienced years of judgment and rejection. What they needed was someone willing to show them that God had not forgotten them.

This is how Jesus ministered. He never compromised truth, but neither did He withhold compassion. He saw beyond people’s failures to their deepest need—for forgiveness, dignity, hope and a new beginning.

Pastor Arthur’s ministry therefore challenges us: Where is the darkness God is asking us to enter with His light?

It may not be a red-light district. It may be a broken family, a struggling colleague, a lonely neighbour, someone trapped by addiction, or a person society has pushed aside.

The gospel was never meant to remain within the safety of our churches. Light fulfils its purpose when it enters the darkness.

Today, may we ask God for eyes to see those others overlook, hearts willing to listen without condemnation, and courage to carry the love and truth of Jesus wherever darkness remains.

“The darker the night, the more clearly the Light of Christ can shine.”‬‬