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Dr. Tan Tek Seng - Tuesday, January 27, 2026, 6:10 AM

DAILY REFLECTION

27 Jan 2026

“Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.”  
Psalm 119:105 

In today’s unpredictable business world, decision-making can feel relentless and weighty. From career transitions and financial commitments to leadership responsibilities and personal boundaries, every choice carries real consequences. Professionals are often expected to decide quickly and confidently, even when information is incomplete and outcomes remain uncertain. Over time, this pressure can quietly give rise to anxiety or an unhealthy dependence on self.

Into this reality, Scripture speaks with quiet strength and clarity. God’s Word is described as a lamp to our feet and a light to our path. God does not always reveal the entire journey at once, but He faithfully provides sufficient light for the next step. In both business and life, trusting His direction means allowing His truth to shape our values, sharpen our thinking, and guide our decisions—especially when clarity is limited.

I often remind marketplace leaders that wisdom is not found in having all the answers, but in knowing where to turn for guidance. God’s Word offers steady and reliable counsel. It grounds us when emotions run high and refines our discernment when choices appear equally compelling. Scripture brings practical insight for immediate decisions, enabling us to move forward with confidence rather than fear.

When doubts arise or pressure intensifies, returning to God’s Word recenters our perspective. It reminds us that we are not navigating complexity alone. God is present, attentive, and actively guiding those who seek Him.

Psalm 119:105 teaches us that true direction is not found in circumstances or emotions, but in God’s unchanging Word. As we read, meditate on, and obey Scripture, it becomes a constant source of wisdom, peace, and assurance—faithfully guiding us through both everyday decisions and life’s most uncertain moments.

“Don't fall into the trap of studying the Bible without doing what it says.”  
-Francis Chan

Modified: Tuesday, January 27, 2026, 6:11 AM
 
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Dr. Tan Tek Seng - Monday, January 26, 2026, 6:39 AM

DAILY REFLECTION

26 Jan 2026

“Blessed is the one who does not walk in step with the wicked or stand in the way that sinners take or sit in the company of mockers, but whose delight is in the law of the Lord, and who meditates on his law day and night.”
Psalms‬ ‭1‬:‭1‬-‭2

In the fast-paced and competitive world of work, it is easy to feel pressured into rivalry, anxiety, or subtle compromise. Ambition and performance demands can quietly shape our values, tempting us to take shortcuts, dull our conscience, or measure success by outcomes alone rather than by integrity. As a mentor, I have seen how easily even well-intentioned believers can drift when the pace of life outruns their spiritual anchoring.

Yet Scripture gently reminds us that true blessing does not come from keeping up with the crowd or adopting the values of a results-driven world. It flows from a life rooted in God’s truth. This requires intentionality—a daily choice to align our decisions, attitudes, and conduct with God’s ways, even when doing so feels costly or counter-cultural.

Today’s Scripture invites us to pause and reflect: where does our delight truly rest? Is it in temporary success built on unstable ground, or in the steady nourishment of God’s Word, which forms character and produces lasting fruit? A life rooted in Him may not always look impressive by worldly standards, but it carries depth, resilience, and quiet strength.

For those who sense they have drifted, perhaps compromising under pressure or losing clarity of purpose, this psalm offers hope, not condemnation. God always provides a way back. In Him, there is renewal, realignment, and restoration. As we return to His truth, we discover that true fulfillment in the workplace is not measured by titles or rewards, but by faithfulness, integrity, and a life that quietly bears fruit for the glory of Christ and the good of others.

Psalm 1:1–2 reminds believers that spiritual flourishing begins with guarding our influences and cultivating a deep, joyful relationship with God through His Word.

“The person who delights in the Lord values the Giver more highly than His gifts.”

Modified: Monday, January 26, 2026, 6:40 AM
 
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Dr. Tan Tek Seng - Friday, January 23, 2026, 7:13 AM

DAILY REFLECTION

23 Jan 2026

“Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate ”Mark 10:9)

In a culture that often treats marriage as temporary or disposable, Scripture reminds us that marriage is not merely a human agreement, but a sacred covenant established by God Himself. It is a divine joining, entrusted to a husband and wife as a reflection of God’s enduring love and faithfulness. This covenant is meant to be honored, guarded, and cherished—especially in seasons of deep pain and testing.

For those facing the heartbreak of infidelity, Scripture does not ignore the gravity of the wound. Betrayal cuts deeply, shattering trust and bringing real sorrow. Jesus acknowledges in Matthew 19:9 that sexual unfaithfulness grievously breaks the covenant bond. Yet the Word of God also offers a pathway toward hope and healing. Ephesians 4:32 calls us to kindness, compassion, and forgiveness—graces that are humanly impossible without the help of the Holy Spirit.

Healing after infidelity is neither quick nor easy. It requires repentance, truth, humility, and a willingness to rebuild what has been broken. Prayer, pastoral care, godly counsel, and time are essential in restoring trust. Whether reconciliation is possible or boundaries must be set, God’s heart remains one of redemption, comfort, and restoration for the wounded.

Marriage, at its best, mirrors God’s covenant love—a love that pursues, forgives, and restores. Even in moments of brokenness, God’s grace is sufficient. As couples surrender their pain to Him, He can bring renewal where hope seems lost, turning ashes into beauty and restoring dignity, faith, and peace.

Mark 10:9 reminds us that marriage is a sacred trust. It is not sustained merely by human effort, but by reverence for God, reliance on His Spirit, and a commitment to honor the covenant He has established.

“Till death do us part... is a sacred covenant promise—the same kind Jesus made with His bride when He died for her.” - John Piper 

Modified: Friday, January 23, 2026, 7:14 AM
 
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Dr. Tan Tek Seng - Thursday, January 22, 2026, 7:49 AM

DAILY REFLECTION

22 Jan 2026

“Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up.”Ecclesiastes‬ ‭4‬:‭9‬-‭10‬ ‭

Money is often one of the greatest sources of tension in marriage, yet Scripture invites us to see it as an opportunity for deeper unity and growth. When couples choose to manage their finances together, they are doing far more than paying bills or balancing budgets—they are practicing trust, humility, and faithful stewardship of all that God has entrusted to them.

Managing money as a couple requires intentionality. It calls for honesty—being open about spending habits, debts, and financial realities. It invites accountability—graciously helping one another remain disciplined and wise. And it demands a shared vision—aligning financial decisions not merely with personal comfort, but with shared values and God’s priorities.

When money is treated as a shared journey rather than a private burden, it no longer divides; it deepens connection. Financial stewardship then becomes an act of partnership and faith, strengthening both the marriage and the mission God has given the household. In this unity, couples discover that true security is found not in wealth, but in walking together with trust, purpose, and love.

Ecclesiastes‬ ‭4‬:‭9‬-‭10‬ ‭ reminds us that financial stewardship was never meant to be carried alone. It teaches that unity in financial decisions strengthens trust, reduces anxiety, and aligns the household toward shared values and God-honoring priorities.

“Money can buy luxuries, but not love; beauty, but not happiness; fame, but not peace; partners, but not relationships.”

Modified: Thursday, January 22, 2026, 7:49 AM
 
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Dr. Tan Tek Seng - Wednesday, January 21, 2026, 7:34 AM

DAILY REFLECTION

21 Jan 2026

"By wisdom a house is built, and through understanding it is established; through knowledge its rooms are filled with rare and beautiful treasures."
Proverbs 24:3–4

While the Lord is gracious to heal what is broken, He also calls His people to guard what is sacred. The protection of the home is therefore not merely a practical concern but a spiritual stewardship—one that safeguards future generations and upholds the credibility of the Gospel lived out before the world.

The home is God’s ordained design: a sanctuary of safety (Psalm 91), a place where faith and character are formed (Deuteronomy 6:6–7), and a dwelling marked by steadfast love. When the marital foundation is weakened, brokenness seeps into the spiritual and emotional life of the family, echoing across generations, just as Scripture warns that choices within the home shape the legacy that follows.

Homes are where children learn love, forgiveness, conflict resolution, and trust. When these patterns are distorted, children often carry anxiety, insecurity, and fractured views of relationships into adulthood, hindering their capacity to form healthy, covenantal marriages. What is left unguarded in one generation is frequently carried as a wound in the next.

Biblically, a healthy marriage provides spiritual covering for the household (Ephesians 5:23). When a home fractures, that covering is compromised, and the inheritance envisioned in Proverbs—of peace, wisdom, and righteousness—is often replaced with survival rather than peace. The cost is not only emotional but spiritual.

Moreover, the effects ripple outward to extended family, friendships, and the church community. Division, grief, and silence replace joy and witness. In this way, preserving the home becomes more than a personal priority; it is a holy calling—one that protects testimony, nurtures faith, and allows the light of Christ to shine brightly through the family.

Proverbs 24:3–4 reminds believers that a flourishing home is intentionally built through a life submitted to God’s truth. Such a house becomes a place of refuge, formation, and testimony—reflecting God’s order and blessing for generations to come.

“Nothing can bring a real sense of security into the home except true love.”  
—Billy Graham.

Modified: Wednesday, January 21, 2026, 7:35 AM
 
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Dr. Tan Tek Seng - Tuesday, January 20, 2026, 7:27 AM

DAILY REFLECTION

20 Jan 2026

“However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.”
Ephesians‬ ‭5‬:‭33‬ ‭

In God’s design for marriage, a husband is called to provide a canopy of security—emotionally, financially, and spiritually. When he fails in this calling through poor stewardship, emotional absence, or a lack of godly leadership, that covering is weakened. In such moments, a wife is often compelled to step beyond her intended role to fill the gaps, carrying burdens she was never meant to bear alone.

This breach of trust is felt most painfully in unfaithfulness. Infidelity strikes at the heart of the one-flesh union, shattering a wife’s sense of being exclusively chosen and cherished. It erodes trust and honor, leaving deep disillusionment. In these circumstances, respect cannot be demanded or assumed. It must be restored through sincere repentance, consistent transparency, and the slow, faithful rebuilding of a life that is once again worthy of trust.

Yet Scripture also reveals that a wife’s respect is more than a response to her husband’s performance; it is a covenantal posture rooted in spiritual truth. As the Church honors Christ as her Head, a wife’s respect reflects her obedience to God’s created order. This truth, however, never excuses neglect or sin. Rather, it underscores that respect flourishes most naturally where love is expressed through sacrificial leadership, protection, and steadfast faithfulness.

When a wife walks in the spirit of Ephesians 5:33, she is not merely honoring a man but affirming his identity in Christ and mirroring the Church’s reverence for her Lord. When a husband responds with Christlike love, security is rebuilt stone by stone. In this rhythm of mutual obedience, love and respect are restored, preserving the beauty and sacred strength of the marital covenant—even after seasons of deep brokenness.

Ephesians 5:33 points beyond marriage to Christ and the Church, calling every home to become a living witness of the Gospel.

"Most good relationships are built on mutual trust and respect."

Modified: Tuesday, January 20, 2026, 7:28 AM
 
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Dr. Tan Tek Seng - Monday, January 19, 2026, 7:36 AM

DAILY REFLECTION

19 Jan 2026

"Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word."
Ephesians 5:25-26

The pressures of modern life - demanding careers, constant digital distractions, and a culture that prioritizes personal fulfilment, often make it challenging for men to live out the kind of sacrificial love Scripture calls for in marriage. Many husbands feel stretched, fatigued, or unsure how to lead with tenderness while carrying heavy responsibilities.

Yet God’s Word gently reorients our understanding of love. Biblical love is not defined by intention or emotion alone, but by daily, self-giving action. Christ loved the Church by giving Himself up for her—cleansing, nurturing, and patiently shaping her through grace and truth. In the same way, a husband is invited to lay aside self-interest and serve his wife with humility, devotion, and consistency.

This love is not controlling or demanding. It is formative and life-giving. Through patient kindness, attentive presence, and gentle spiritual leadership, a husband creates a safe space where his wife can grow, heal, and flourish in her God-given identity. Such love reflects Christ’s heart—steadfast in weakness, merciful in failure, and faithful over time.

From a believer’s perspective, every day is a fresh invitation to choose Christlikeness in speech, attitude, and action. As husbands learn to love as Christ loves, marriage is transformed into a sacred covenant that reflects the redeeming and enduring love of Christ for His Church. It becomes a powerful witness of the Gospel within the home.

Ephesians 5:25–26 teaches that love, when shaped by Christ, is not only expressive but redemptive—aimed at holiness, grounded in the Word, and rooted in self-giving grace.

“How you live your life is a testimony of what you believe about God.”

Modified: Monday, January 19, 2026, 7:38 AM
 
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Dr. Tan Tek Seng - Friday, January 16, 2026, 6:44 AM

DAILY REFLECTION

16 Jan 2026

“And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast".
1 Peter 5:10

Marriage is a sacred journey—a covenant designed by God to reflect His faithful and redemptive love. Along the way, there are seasons filled with joy, laughter, and deep companionship. Yet there are also seasons of testing: misunderstandings that linger, words spoken in weakness that wound deeply, and moments when trust feels fragile and hope seems distant.

Still, Scripture reminds us that suffering is never the final chapter. 1 Peter 5:10 assures us that while suffering may endure for a season, God’s grace is eternal and purposeful. Grace is not merely God’s unearned favor; it is His active power at work within us. It is the healing balm that restores wounded hearts, the gentle hand that rebuilds trust, and the divine strength that deepens love beyond human effort.

When grace is welcomed into a marriage, it creates space for forgiveness—even when the pain feels heavy and unresolved. It nurtures patience, allowing growth rather than resentment. It brings renewal, breathing life into weary hearts and transforming hardship into holy ground where love matures and endures.

If you are walking through a difficult season in your marriage today, take heart. God is not distant or indifferent—He is intimately at work. He is restoring what feels broken, strengthening what feels weak, and establishing your union on a firmer foundation than before. Ask Him to fill your heart with His grace, so that you may extend that same kindness and mercy to your spouse.

1 Peter 5:10 teaches that suffering is purposeful, restoration is divine, and the end result is spiritual strength. What the enemy intends to weaken us, God uses to establish us more firmly in Christ. He is the unshakable anchor of your marriage through every storm.

"A happy marriage is the union of two good forgivers."

Modified: Friday, January 16, 2026, 6:45 AM
 
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DAILY REFLECTION

15 Jan 2026

“Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.”
Genesis‬ ‭2‬:‭24‬ ‭

In today’s workplace, where long hours and close professional relationships are common, the temptation toward adultery can quietly arise. 

From a biblical perspective, such unfaithfulness is never simply a personal weakness. Scripture consistently portrays adultery as a violation of covenant, a profound betrayal of trust, and an offense against God’s holy design for marriage. Believers are therefore called to establish clear moral boundaries and fostering a culture of respect, accountability, and integrity that honors the sacredness of marriage.

Sexual intimacy within marriage is God’s gift, a sacred act through which husband and wife share a unique and exclusive bond characterized by mutual surrender, trust, and covenant faithfulness. To step outside this covenant through adultery desecrates what God has consecrated, causing deep harm to the marriage, the family, and the believer’s testimony to the world.

Genesis 2:24 affirms that marriage is a divinely ordained covenant marked by exclusive commitment and lifelong unity. It calls husbands and wives to prioritize their union, remain faithful through all seasons, and reflect God’s covenantal love in their relationship. Upholding this calling safeguards the heart of marriage and honors God’s holy purpose.

“A good marriage isn't something you find; it's something you make."

Modified: Thursday, January 15, 2026, 6:45 AM
 
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Dr. Tan Tek Seng - Wednesday, January 14, 2026, 5:57 AM

DAILY REFLECTION

14 Jan 2026

“Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up". Ecclesiastes 4:9-10

In today’s fast-paced and demanding world, maintaining genuine accountability in relationships can feel increasingly challenging. The weight of responsibilities and a strong pull toward individualism often leave people with few true companionship. As a result, many quietly carry their burdens alone, longing for understanding and support.

Yet accountability is far more than a helpful practice—it is part of God’s gracious design for covenantal life. Scripture reminds us that we were never meant to walk alone. God gives us one another as a gift, not to control or condemn, but to protect, strengthen, and encourage. Healthy accountability reflects the heart of Christ, who lovingly bears our burdens and invites us to do the same for one another. At its core, it is an expression of mutual love, care, and shared faith.

Within marriage, friendship, and Christian community, accountability nurtures trust, honesty, and spiritual growth. It creates safe spaces where truth can be spoken with grace and where struggles can be shared without fear. Sin and discouragement often gain power in secrecy, but when we walk in the light together, healing and restoration can take place (James 5:16).

Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 remind us that accountability becomes a channel of God’s grace when practiced with humility and gentleness. It reminds us that dependence is not weakness but wisdom—that we need God and we need one another. Through loving accountability, we are strengthened to persevere, restored when we stumble, and encouraged to grow into the fullness of Christ’s calling for our lives.

“If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together"

Modified: Wednesday, January 14, 2026, 5:58 AM