Dr. Tan Tek Seng
Blog entry by Dr. Tan Tek Seng
DAILY REFLECTION
“Let your wife be a fountain of blessing for you. Rejoice in the wife of your youth.”
Proverbs 5:18
In a world where relationships often falter under pressure and commitment is tested by convenience, God calls us to nurture our marriages rooted in faithfulness, joy, and enduring love.
One such testimony shines brightly is the enduring marriage of Malaysia’s Former Prime Minister Dr. Mahathir, now 100, and his wife Dr Siti Hasmah, 99. Married for 68 years, their journey together has weathered the storms and celebrated the sunshine. Through decades of change, challenge, and triumph, they have remained steadfast - supporting, encouraging, and honoring one another with unwavering loyalty.
Their love story is not marked by fleeting romance, but by cultivated commitment. In a culture often tempted by shortcuts and compromise, they have upheld the sanctity of marriage with integrity, avoiding the pitfalls that could tarnish their relationship. Their faithfulness is not only a gift to each other, but a legacy to their family and community - a living testimony of trust, perseverance, and grace.
From youthful vigor to middle-age responsibilities, and now into the golden years, they exemplify what it means to rejoice in one another through every season of life. Their shared journey reminds us that joy in marriage is not merely an emotion - it is a daily decision to love, honor, and cherish. Their marriage is a role model for the younger couples. It provides a beacon of hope that says: lasting love is possible. Faithfulness is beautiful. And true joy is found not in perfection, but in the sacred rhythm of walking together, hand in hand, heart to heart, year after year.
Proverbs 5:18 is a reminder that love is not just an emotion but a commitment, deepened over time. When couples honor this principle, they not only protect their relationship from destruction but also create a legacy of stability, joy, and faithfulness that inspires others.
“Tolerance is needed for a healthy and balanced relationship.”