德成陈博士

DAILY REFLECTION.
29 April 2026

“You ask, “Why?” It is because the Lord is the witness between you and the wife of your youth. You have been unfaithful to her, though she is your partner, the wife of your marriage covenant.”Malachi‬ ‭2‬:‭14‬ ‭

Mr Chan was a successful businessman, known for his discipline and drive. In the early years of his marriage, he was equally devoted to his wife, intentionally nurturing their relationship. Over time, however, success reshaped his priorities. Work demands increased, long hours became routine, and even at home his attention remained on unfinished tasks. What seemed like diligence gradually became neglect. Conversations grew brief, shared moments faded, and their emotional connection weakened.

His wife began to feel unseen and unvalued. Meanwhile, Mr Chan found himself drawn to his personal assistant, who offered him the attention and connection he had withdrawn from his own marriage. What began as overcommitment led to emotional distance, and that distance opened the door to temptation. Eventually, he entered into an inappropriate relationship, resulting in a painful divorce.

This account reveals a sobering truth: marriages rarely fail suddenly—they erode through gradual neglect. Small compromises in time, attention, and care quietly weaken the foundation.

Marriage is not merely a personal arrangement but a sacred covenant before God. To neglect a spouse is to disregard that covenant. Faithfulness is not only avoiding wrongdoing; it is actively cultivating love, presence, and care.

This calls for honest reflection: Are we drifting? Are good pursuits crowding out what matters most? A strong marriage is built—or broken—through daily choices. Intentional love and faithfulness are what preserve that neglect can easily destroy.

Malachi 2:14 reminds us that honoring God’s design for marriage honours God Himself, fostering relationships built on integrity, respect, and enduring love.

“Loneliness hurts the most when you feel it beside the person you love.”