Dr. Tan Tek Seng

DAILY REFLECTION

9 March 2026

"Let the favor of the Lord our God be upon us, and establish the work of our hands upon us; yes, establish the work of our hands!“ Psalm 90:17

Our families are like a delicate structure—built day by day through our words, actions, and expressions of love. Just as a builder cannot rely on materials alone to create a strong and lasting structure, we cannot build enduring family relationships merely through human effort. We need God’s favor—His gracious presence resting upon our intentions and our work.

Yesterday, Family First Malaysia completed the final module of its Better Families Discipleship Programme on the theme “The Favor of God,” conducted with Cornerstone Immanuel Church. The feedback from the church leadership was both positive and encouraging. Elder CE wrote: “We praise God for your faithfulness in serving the body of Christ and for imparting the Word of God in such a practical way. CI is truly grateful for the sacrifices made by you and your team. I pray that God will richly reward your service to Him and continue to use you to strengthen the body of Christ. Thank you.”Such words remind us that ministry is never a solo effort—it is the fruit of God’s grace working through willing hearts.

Reflecting on Psalm 90:17 today, we are reminded of our deep dependence on God’s guidance and blessing in all that we do. It is God’s favor that gives meaning, fruitfulness, and endurance to our efforts. Without His blessing, even our most sincere work may fall short. But when His favor rests upon us, our labor becomes fruitful and our influence lasting. 

In building our families, we seek God’s blessing not only for ourselves as individuals but for the shared task of nurturing relationships, shaping character, and passing on faith to the next generation. This verse encourages us to trust that with God’s favor, the legacy we create will be marked by strength, joy, and lasting peace.

As we commit ourselves to building better families, may we daily ask God to establish the work of our hands—to guide our words, shape our attitudes, and strengthen our love for one another. With His favor upon us, our homes can truly become places of grace, hope, and spiritual growth.

Psalm 90:17 reminds us that building strong families is both purposeful work and a spiritual journey. It calls us to rely on God’s favor while remaining faithful in consistent, loving effort—so that our homes may stand firmly on a foundation of enduring strength and grace.

“Favour is a force that turns obstacles into opportunities and supports long-term purpose.”