Dr. Tan Tek Seng

DAILY REFLECTION

23 Jan 2026

“Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate ”（Mark 10:9）

In a culture that often treats marriage as temporary or disposable, Scripture reminds us that marriage is not merely a human agreement, but a sacred covenant established by God Himself. It is a divine joining, entrusted to a husband and wife as a reflection of God’s enduring love and faithfulness. This covenant is meant to be honored, guarded, and cherished—especially in seasons of deep pain and testing.

For those facing the heartbreak of infidelity, Scripture does not ignore the gravity of the wound. Betrayal cuts deeply, shattering trust and bringing real sorrow. Jesus acknowledges in Matthew 19:9 that sexual unfaithfulness grievously breaks the covenant bond. Yet the Word of God also offers a pathway toward hope and healing. Ephesians 4:32 calls us to kindness, compassion, and forgiveness—graces that are humanly impossible without the help of the Holy Spirit.

Healing after infidelity is neither quick nor easy. It requires repentance, truth, humility, and a willingness to rebuild what has been broken. Prayer, pastoral care, godly counsel, and time are essential in restoring trust. Whether reconciliation is possible or boundaries must be set, God’s heart remains one of redemption, comfort, and restoration for the wounded.

Marriage, at its best, mirrors God’s covenant love—a love that pursues, forgives, and restores. Even in moments of brokenness, God’s grace is sufficient. As couples surrender their pain to Him, He can bring renewal where hope seems lost, turning ashes into beauty and restoring dignity, faith, and peace.

Mark 10:9 reminds us that marriage is a sacred trust. It is not sustained merely by human effort, but by reverence for God, reliance on His Spirit, and a commitment to honor the covenant He has established.

“Till death do us part... is a sacred covenant promise—the same kind Jesus made with His bride when He died for her.” - John Piper