Dr. Tan Tek Seng

DAILY REFLECTION

12 Jan 2026

“For we are taking pains to do what is right, not only in the eyes of the Lord but also in the eyes of man.”
2 Corinthians‬ ‭8‬:‭21‬ ‭

In today’s fast-paced and demanding world, many marriages are tested by pressures that strain trust and create opportunities for infidelity. Scripture reminds us that integrity is not optional; it is the very heartbeat of a covenant relationship.

Marriage is not merely a human contract but a sacred covenant. Faithfulness requires intentional guardianship over our words, actions, and affections, ensuring that love remains pure and undivided. When couples choose integrity, they reflect the steadfast and sacrificial love of Christ for His church.

Honesty in marriage is a commitment to live openly, leaving no hidden shadows to erode trust. When spouses courageously share their hearts, struggles, and hopes with one another, they establish a foundation that cannot easily be shaken. Transparency becomes the fertile soil in which true intimacy takes root and flourishes.

A marriage anchored in integrity becomes a powerful testimony to children, family, and the wider community. It proclaims that love grounded in Christ is resilient, trustworthy, and transformative. Transparency nurtures intimacy, faithfulness safeguards legacy, and together they form a union that glorifies God and shines as a faithful witness to the world.

2 Corinthians 8:21 calls believers, especially spouses in marriage, to embrace clear accountability, honest communication, and transparency in every aspect of their relationship. When couples live by this principle, they reflect the character of Christ, whose integrity was beyond reproach before God and people. It reminds married couples that true godliness is shown not only in honoring God but also in building deep trust and credibility with one another, creating a strong, faithful, and loving union.

“Trust is like glass—once cracked, it never returns to full clarity.”