Dr. Tan Tek Seng

DAILY REFLECTION

8 Jan 2026

"He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord" 
Proverbs 18:22

In a world filled with pressure, distraction, and disappointment, even strong marriages are tested. Scripture reminds believers that marriage is not a transaction based on convenience or feelings, but a sacred covenant established by God. A spouse is not merely a partner for favorable seasons, but a gracious gift entrusted by the Lord—worthy of honor, steadfast love, and faithful perseverance, especially in times of difficulty.

The story of Isaac and Rebekah in Genesis 24 offers enduring hope for couples facing challenges. Abraham’s servant sought the Lord’s guidance, and when Rebekah appeared, he recognized her as God’s provision—a “good thing” from the Lord. Their union was not the result of human manipulation but divine direction. This reminds us that even when circumstances feel heavy or uncertain, God remains at work, and our spouse continues to be part of His gracious design.

Isaac’s love for Rebekah and the comfort he found in their marriage reveal the peace and favor that flow from relationships centered on God. Their story teaches that joy in marriage is cultivated through trust and obedience to the Lord. For couples navigating conflict, unmet expectations, or external pressures, their example calls us to slow down, seek God’s wisdom, and rebuild on His foundation. A spouse is not merely a companion, but a covenant partner given to help bear life’s burdens.

Proverbs 18:22 reminds us that even in seasons of struggle, reverence, gratitude, patience, and forgiveness must shape the marital relationship. In doing so, believers testify that marriage is sacred, resilient, and sustained by God’s grace.

“A happy wife is the secret of every man’s happiness and success!”